Misunderstandings are a fact of life. Sometimes they lead to conflict other times they produce greater understanding.
Most misunderstandings come from one of two things:
I. Miscommunication
II. Assumption
Miscommunication can arise from two sources:
• Not clearly articulating intentions or expectations
• Not verifying that what you understood was what was meant
Assumption also comes from two causative factors:
• Not paying attention because you (think you) know the endpoint or have a point to make
• Not waiting to hear the full message before responding
Any of these subheaders (on their own) can lead to a misunderstanding. But what tends to play out is that there is usually a mix that triggers or fosters the misunderstanding.
The next time you feel you are being misunderstood, first seek to understand.
Welcome to your future!
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