The statement by Paul of Tarsus, "Don’t let anyone
deceive you. Associating with bad people will ruin decent people," is a
fine way to continue on the subject of influence (we started last time).
So long as you are alive, there will be people and things fighting
to influence you. You will submit to some!
In light of that, does it not make sense to choose Who, What
& How? In order to strategically pick the influences that influence you,
subject them this Litmus Test:
• Do they
have credibility?
How can you
tell?
- Track
record
-
Authenticity
- Relationship with/treatment of people (above & beneath
them)
• Do they
have integrity?
How can you
tell?
- Character
-
Reliability
- Humility
• Do they
care about you?
How can you
tell?
- Investment
of time
- Belief in you
and encouragement
- More concerned about your future than your today
In conclusion, here are influencing tactics to avoid:
| Manipulating
| Intimidating
| Threatening
Succeeding is enough work without compounding it with bad
influences. So, locate positive influences (they position and propel you) and
never, ever be without them!
Welcome to your future!
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