Ever heard people complain about how things are not working in their favour?E
Ever done the same thing yourself?
There are two things playing out here:
~Abdication of responsibility (for one's life)
~Transference of power (to engender change)
The thing with allowing circumstances and happenstances dictate what happens to you is that you have no idea how things will turn out or that they would even be pleasant. Same thing with leaving your life in the hands of others is they will attend to it, if at all, when they are done with their own issues.
That leaves you with one smart route: take control of your own life. The best helping hand, at the end, is yours.
Fixing your situation, and causing a change in trajectory, starts with taking ownership.
Yes, there are factors beyond your control. Yes, the decisions and actions of others will have an impact on you. Yet, if you do not steer your ship (to your preferred shore), shipwrecking (against some dangerous reefs) or drifting (and getting lost at sea) is almost certain.
✓This is your life, decide how it should go
✓The one with a goal already has an edge, plot a course
✓This is a journey, get navigational tools and crewmen
✓There will be adverse conditions, stay on course
✓The fiercest storm blows over, outlast it
✓The destination is possible, let that motivate you
Welcome to your future!
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